Time Out Day

In addition to your usual daily interaction with your family, set a day of the week when you have a special 'time out', away from your usual run of the mill routine, one on one time with each of your kids. Go out for lunch; do a favourite activity; have a favourite treat; take a look at that item he/she has been asking for. Time out just for that child. And listen....listen to his/her dreams; troubles; view on the world....Makes each one feel really special. The kids taking turns each week.

- R. Laklem

BTW: This can be modified to once a month; or a special hour, the point is to have a special time out slot where your child can look forward to 'having you all to him/herself'. (Works well for spouses too :-) )